is intended for people approaching Alcoholics Anonymous (A.A.) for the first
time. Here we have tried to answer the questions most frequently in the minds of
newcomers—the questions which were in our minds when we first approached the
I an alcoholic?
1.) Is drinking making your home life unhappy?
2.) Does your drinking make you careless of your family's welfare?
3.) Do you drink because you are shy with other people?
4.) Is drinking affecting your reputation?
5.) Do you drink to escape from worries or trouble?
6.) Do you drink alone?
7.) Have you lost time from work due to drinking?
8.) Has your ambition decreased since drinking?
9.) Has your efficiency decreased since drinking?
10.) Is drinking jeopardizing your job or business?
11.) Have you ever felt remorse after drinking?
12.) Are you in financial difficulties as a result of your drinking?
13.) Do you turn to or seek an inferior environment when drinking?
14.) Do you crave a drink at a definite time each day?
15.) Does drinking cause you to have difficulty sleeping?
16.) Do you want a drink the next morning?
17.) Do you drink to build self-confidence?
18.) Have you has a complete loss of memory as a result of drinking?
19.) Has your doctor ever treated you for drinking?
20.) Have you ever been in hospital or prison because of drinking?
How many did you answer yes
Did you answer YES four or more times?
If so, you are probably addicted like us. Why do we say this? Because thousands
of us in recovery have said so for many years. They did find out the truth about
themselves — the hard way.
The good news is that
only you can decide whether you think a 12 step recovery program is for
you. Try to keep an open mind on the subject. If the answer is YES, there are
many recovery organizations waiting to help you to include someone you may
already know. Just call.
programs do not promise to solve your life's problems. But we can show you how
we started learning to live without using "one day at a time."
If you repeatedly drink more than you intend or want to, if you get into
trouble, or if you have memory lapses when you drink, you may be an alcoholic.
Only you can decide. No one in A.A. will tell you whether you are or not.
What can I do if I am worried about my drinking?
Seek help. Alcoholics Anonymous can help.
What is Alcoholics Anonymous?
We are a Fellowship of men and women who have lost the ability to control our
drinking and have found ourselves in various kinds of trouble as a result of
drinking. We attempt—most of us successfully—to create a satisfying way of life
without alcohol. For this we find we need the help and support of other
alcoholics in A.A.
If I go to an A.A. meeting, does that commit me to anything?
No. A.A. does not keep membership files, or attendance records. You do not have
to reveal anything about yourself. No one will bother you if you don’t want to
What happens if I meet people I know?
They will be there for the same reason you are there. They will not disclose
your identity to outsiders. At A.A. you retain as much anonymity as you wish.
That is one of the reasons we call ourselves Alcoholics Anonymous.
What happens at an A.A. meeting?
An A.A. meeting may take one of several forms, but at any meeting you will find
alcoholics talking about what drinking did to their lives and personalities,
what actions they took to help themselves, and how they are living their lives
How can this help me with my drinking problem?
We in A.A. know what it is like to be addicted to alcohol, and to be unable to
keep promises made to others and ourselves that we will stop drinking. We are
not professional therapists. Our only qualification for helping others to
recover from alcoholism is that we have stopped drinking ourselves, but problem
drinkers coming to us know that recovery is possible because they see people who
have done it.
Why do A.A. members keep going to meetings after they are cured?
We in A.A. believe there is no such thing as a cure for alcoholism. We can never
return to normal drinking, and our ability to stay away from alcohol depends on
maintaining our physical, mental, and spiritual health. This we can achieve by
going to meetings regularly and putting into practice what we learn there. In
addition, we find it helps us to stay sober if we help other alcoholics.
How do I join A.A.?
You are an A.A. member if and when you say so. The only requirement for A.A.
membership is a desire to stop drinking, and many of us were not very
wholehearted about that when we first approached A.A.
How much does A.A. membership cost?
There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership. An A.A. group will usually have a
collection during the meeting to cover expenses, such as rent, coffee, etc., and
to this all members are free to contribute as much or as little as they wish.
Is A.A. a religious organization?
No. Nor is it allied with any religious organization.
There’s a lot of talk about God, though, isn’t there?
The majority of A.A. members believe that we have found the solution to our
drinking problem not through individual willpower, but through a power greater
than ourselves. However, everyone defines this power as he or she wishes. Many
people call it God, others think it is the A.A. group, still others don’t
believe in it at all. There is room in A.A. for people of all shades of belief
Can I bring my family to an A.A. meeting?
Family members or close friends are welcome at “Open” A.A. meetings. Discuss
this with your local contact.
What advice do you give new members?
In our experience, the people who recover in A.A. are those who: (a) stay away
from the first drink; (b) attend A.A. meetings regularly; (c) seek out the
people in A.A. who have successfully stayed sober for some time; (d) try to put
into practice the A.A. program of recovery.
How can I contact A.A.?
Look for Alcoholics Anonymous in your local telephone directory. These
telephones are answered by A.A. volunteers who will be happy to answer your
questions, or put you in touch with those who can. If there is no A.A. telephone
service close to you, write or phone the A.A. General Service Office.
Here is a list of A.A. pamphlets which may be particularly helpful to you:
Is There an Alcoholic in Your Life? A.A. — 44 Questions Is A.A. for You? Do You
Think You’re Different? A.A. for the Woman Young People and A.A. Too Young?
Here you will find them all and the
links to them.
Remember that alcoholism is a progressive disease. Take it seriously, even if
you feel you are only in the early stages of the illness. Alcoholism kills
people. If you are an alcoholic, and if you continue to drink, in time you will
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